x mas without LiL angel

So sad to leave u with kong" n pho"..
I am so sorry.. but i promise.. this won't
be so long.. a week for dad n mom go
to honeymoon..
yeah it's hard coz u are only 3months old
now..












Kong" n pho" can take care of u..
i promise when u can walk and can
eat by ur self, i will bring u with
us..
Mom Loves You so Much..











Mike got a x'mas present from Grandpa at America..
Thank you Grandpa Dennis..

60th wedding anniversary

white tuxedo

with dad n mom

grandpa n grandma

3 generation ( grandma, mom, me )

Family

4th generation ( grand~grandparents, grandparents, my parents, me )

one month celebration

Dear All,

Thank you for your wishes, giving birth congratz, and the present.. today is Michael Steve Chandra's 1st month.. hope that God will always protect him where ever he is.. giving a healthy body and full of love and happiness.. nothing can describe my happiness when i have my baby boy.. Thank God..

Mike's mom

One month thank you package

present from family and friends..

Chinese tradition to cut the baby's hair become bold

taking a bath with 7 different size and place of the stone..
just hoping that when u grew up,
u can go anywhere without a fear..

L.O.V.E is around u, my son...

one day to go.. there will be ur 1st month celebration.. a lot of things that we learn from u.. everything that i do is just to make u comfort.. all the things that i can give u more is just only Love.. a lot of loves around u.. grew up and be a great boy to us..

with papi ( having breakfast time )

with seyie ( extra time before working )

with sanyie ( accompanied mommy )

with oyie~pho from Melbourne

Wedding anniversary of Kong" n Pho"

with Lauma ( mom's grandma )

with tayie ( always accompanied mom when she's lonely )

a kiss from pho"

our first~~ days at home

it's our first second day at home..
just hoping that u feel comfort with
ur new bed room with mom n dad..








When Mike is hungry... he will cry loudly so
that every one in this house know that he is
starving...

a day after his " tali pusar lepas " he cried in the middle of the night.. loudly.. can't silent..
our first panic night.. it's like a night mare coz
mike can't speak.. just cried loudly.. we couldn't find what he wants..
finally we found that his body enter wind.. stomach full of wind.. then my hubby massage
his back with " minyak telon " and it works..
















Yawn..
time to sleep



Nite all...

day 12 celebration

Dated : 16th Sept 2010

Day 12..

In Chinese tradition, we have 12 days celebration..
my mom should bring " selendang, new clothes, pork''
it's just a tradition.. some of the chinese, they didn't
do this old fashion tradition anymore..


When everyone is busy with the "12days" celebration for the baby..
He just slept.. he didn't care what is that..
as long as he felt comfort...








the important things for the baby is
L.O.V.E
Love around the baby can makes the baby
survives..

new day has come

Dated : 05 Sept 2010
Early in the morning at 4 a.m.. a lot of water on the floor like i am pee..
calling mom to make sure the mark is correct..
Washing my hair ( coz i will not wash it for 1month )
and taking a bath ( it takes 12days from now for taking a bath again )
after picking up my mother in law and mom+Karunia, at 6 a.m we arrived at Stella Maris..

Thank you mom.. u are always be by my side.. patient to comfort me.. when i am in pain..

at 11:55.. suddenly when the doctor came.. in sec i hear u cried..
when i hear u cried loudly, i whispered.. thank God for sending me a lil angel to my life.. my tears drop just because u are so cute.. and suddenly u ease my pain..

Thank you my dearest hubby for holding my hands.. u make me stronger..

i'LL be boRn soOn

Dear Papi & Mami,

Mami.. I know it's the hardest month for u.. u carry me on ur stomach.. u can't move faster than before.. everything is in pain.. every night u can't sleep tight.. and all the things that u are going to do, u will think about me first.. sometimes i kicked u harder than before.. Now u feel itchy on ur hands, on ur legs.. Mami, please be patient coz i will be born soon..

Papi.. thank you for taking care of mami and me.. I feel happy when u are around us.. we felt safe coz u are here.. I know that u need to work harder than before.. but u did it for me.. because of me, u want to work here although last job is more comfortable for u.. thank you for buying medicine in the middle of the night for mami when mami felt itchy..

you are the best...

I Love You..
M. S. C

a month to go

papi... mami... now i am 8 months... within one more month, i will see u around..
today.. mami with pho-pho and lil auntie with me visit the doctor... now i am 1,8kg..
when the nurse want to take a picture of me, i hide at the back of mami's placenta.. i feel shy.. almost like mami.. mami didn't like to take a picture during pregnancy.. once again nurse asked mami to move so that the nurse can take a picture of my face, suddenly i kicked.. a lil bit hard and it makes mami's shock...and i move back.. after that, the nurse give up...

mami.. please don't be sick.. coz i will come within one more month... don't be too tired.. and have a rest for this one month....

papi is here.....

it's my 7th months... everyone get disappointed when Doctor didn't take any photos during the monthly check up.. papi send us to the Doctor.. although papi looked tired, but for me, papi will do everything.. thank you papi...

mY 6th moNths

my first week of 6th months, mami is sick.. mami, me, auntie Dian and pho2 visit the doctor.. we waited for 2 hours.. Doctor said mami is okey.. just need a rest.. and now i am 6,74grams..

Today...
"Papi is coming home tonight".. mami whispered that words since morning..

and tonight, when i kicked mami's stomach, mami put her hands on the stomach.. i kept kicking n playing with mami.. suddenly, there's someone whispered to me.. "baby.. papi's home.. papi will never leave u anymore".. is it papi? when papi touched me, i didn't move.. feels like a little bit strange.. but i will get used to it soon...

G.I.F.T

Yippi.. I got my first gift from lovely pho-pho.. it's for me.. pho-pho bought from Melbourne.. i love it so much.. Thank you pho-pho...

My second gifts are from Auntie July.. she is at Melbourne.. Thank you Auntie July.. I love all the clothes.. it's all about blue..

Thank You God.. I am so happY....

since couple days ago mami could feel while i am moving.. I love to move when mami is sleeping or sitting.. i move to right, move to the left and I learn how to kick now.. i feel so comfort when mami touch me and talk to me.. mami always said.. i must be patient coz papi will come home soon and papi will kiss me... papi will talk to me and papi will comfort me.....
one day.. mami talked to papi by phone.. 2 years ago since papi started working on Bengkulu, mami have used to live without papi.. coz papi stayed at Bengkulu more often than back to Medan..
but mami said that i am not used to live without papi.. how difficult is my life if papi is not around... there will be a gap between me and papi if papi spent 2 months at bengkulu and just one week with me at Medan... i feel so sad.. how can i get a bunch of love from papi that is far away.....
mami and I started praying.. hope papi will find a better job here.. coz i love to see my parents around while i am growing up and since i born..
Papi felt so sad too coz when mami is sick, papi can't be around mami.. when mami visit the doctor, papi can not accompanied mami... papi felt guilty coz papi can't be by mami's side whenever mami needed papi...
mami started looking a job for papi from newspaper and Auntie Ida.. coz papi would love to work at medan as purchasing manager at hotel...
Auntie Ida work at 5stars hotel.. she said that there's a vacant for papi at the new hotel called Hermes Palace Hotel.. papi sent his cv to that company.. everyday i heard mami kept on praying everyday...
" God.. please bless my hubby so that he can get a better job in Medan.. so that he could see our first son that will be born.. so that i can share my happiness with my hubby about our first son that will grow up and so that we can have a perfect, simple new happy family "

Not more than 1 week, the new company said that they will hire papi with a better salary.. better job than before and a better facilities... Thank you God... we have prayed and we've gotten an express answer... special thank's dedicate to Auntie Ida...
Papi will be here next month.. and we will live together.. nothing can seperate us anymore... Starting from next month, mami will be the most beautiful woman in our house and there will be a man and a boy that will love mami forever.. accompanied mami to the doctor... we will start having family pictures...
papi... happy birthday to you.. mami and i will make a birthday party for u when u come back to Medan.. there will be a birthday cake n candle for making wishes.. there will be a present from mami and I.. and a party to celebrate... I hope this new job is the most precious gift from God to papi, mami and I...
mami.. happy mother's day... mami, please be patient coz papi will come back for us forever... papi will never leave us anymore... I love mami...
once again.. Thank You God.. I am so happy....

I am a boy..

Thank you everyone for voting.. I am a boy.. Like papi told mami.. I am a boy.. when i born, auntie can kiss me one time as a gift because all of my auntie guess the right answer..

Now I am 20th weeks.. Mami, khu-khu, se yie and I go to the doctor.. They can see me clearly from the monitor.. first time, i am too shy.. I keep moving.. I have 2 long legs, 2 hands, 10 fingers, and I can cum my finger.. I am bigger now.. and mami must be so heavy to carry me.. I start on kicking.. almost 30minutes they saw me on picture.. at last, I give my best smile for mami when the nurse took photos..
It's my back bones.. I love to move on mami's stomach.. mami said that mami felt so cute when there's a movement..
Now I am 22cm.. Doctor gave a pregnant lotion for avoiding strech mark on mami's stomach..
Can't wait to see papi's home.. i want to show papi that i can kick now..

Mami.. I'm fine....

On March.. mami felt not in the good condition.. may be because of pho-pho went to Australia for a month since 12th March till early April..
First week.. mami found blood on mami's panty.. it's before pho-pho went to Aussie.. a week after our last visit to the doctor, now mami, pho-pho and I need to visit the doctor again.. pho-pho told mami that mami should have bed rest..
Doctor told mami to did some test to see from where the blood come from.. and Doctor did the USG also.. Doctor told mami not to be so tired.. coz Doctor said that I am in healthy condition..
I am 13th weeks and I am 6,90cm now.. Mami and pho-pho saw that i can move up and down so fast..
On the second & third week.. mami still felt not good.. mami has a lot of absent from working.. mami visit doctor every week.. because sometimes mami vommit..
mami is too sad because pho-pho is not around.. and mami had something about papi to think.. yes.. mami had a misunderstanding on papi.. although papi was not around but i believe in papi.. papi loves mami and I.. we will be a happy family..
On the last week of March.. papi's home.. i am happy when papi is around.. papi loves to kiss me.. always talk to me.. i love papi... papi, mami, khu-khu and I visit the doctor..
when mami was sick.. papi gave his full attention to mami.. papi went home on the lunch time just because papi worried about mami and I..
i am so happy because now mami's healthy..

boy or girL

Today.. mami, san yie, khu-khu and I go to the doctor again.. it's our 3rd visit.. this time we go without papi.. mami told me that papi is working.. mami and i must be patient and wait for papi.. before coming here, mami did the medical check up for control mami's thyroid.. Doctor wants mami and I always be healthy..
Now i am on the 12th weeks.. I grow up to 3,9cm in healthy condition.. on my age now, i have hair, nails and voice... so that when i born, i will cry loudly..
Papi told mami that i am a boy.. coz papi said if i am a boy, i can take care of my younger sister and brother.. and papi can guarantee that i am a boy.. coz mami changed a lot when mami is pregnant now.. Mami's behavior is not like usual.. mami felt more lazy and sleepy all the time.. but mami said.. wheather i am a boy or a girl, mami still love me..
I am still too young for showing papi n mami if i am a boy or a girl..

Yippi.. Papi is coming home..

mami did a lot of blood test.. Doctor want to make sure that i am in healthy condition.. although mami is afraid being injured, but mami without papi around us, mami did it for me.. 2 tubes of mami's blood to run some tests..
on 23rd January 2010.. finally papi came home.. i was happy coz papi will be with mami and I for couple days in Medan.. it's the first time, papi kissed me.. and papi whispered some words for me before I slept..
Today, it's 30th January 2010.. papi, mami, khu-khu and I go to the doctor for the second time.. but it's my first time go with papi.. doctor said that i am in good condition and healthy.. i am 8th weeks old and i am 0,97cm now.. I have eyes, nose, mouth and bones... Doctor predicted i will be born on 18th September 2010.. and the doctor took a picture of me...

speciaL gifT fRom God

Today.. it's 4th January 2010.. after 2 weeks of getting holiday, now papi n mami needs to go back to work.. papi is going to go to Bengkulu today.. and mami goes back to the usual life.. mami may not stay with kong-kong & pho-pho just for a month after the wedding.. mami learn how to ride skuter in 3 days.. sometimes ta yie accompanied mami.. sometimes nai-nai accompanied mami.. but mami always miss papi..
few days after, mami got flu and cough.. feeling not well.. and mami found she was still not get the monthly period.. mami has a strong feeling that mami was pregnant..
mami did the manual test in the evening after work.. the result is negative.. actually mami must did the test in the morning.. mami was still waiting until a week.. mami told pho-pho, if mami was not pregnant, mami will take a medicine coz mami was still coughing..
11th January 2010, mami did the manual test again but in the morning.. mami saw there are 2 strips.. it means positive.. mami told pho-pho.. mami is too happy but it's still early..
the next day, mami and pho-pho went to the Lab ( Prodia ) early morning before work.. mami was accompanied by pho-pho to do a test.. the result will be in the afternoon.. mami though no one is interested in the result.. coz after working hours when mami's home, no one open the result.. and when mami open the result, kong-kong, pho-pho and all auntie congratz mami.. honestly they knew it before, pho-pho didn't open the result but calling the lab and asking the result.. papi also knew but papi kept on silent.. but, everyone is happy..
15th January 2010, mami and i, accompanied by khu-khu and pho-pho went to the doctor Binarwan Halim.. I didn't see papi around.. mami told me that papi is not here coz papi is working for mami and I..
Doctor did some test, USG and took a picture of me.. I am 6th weeks old.. I am still small ( 0,62cm )..
Kong-kong thought mami has a twin baby coz there are 2 spots in the picture.. but i am the only baby on mami's stomach.. mami and papi called me " special gift from God ".. coz mami is not like other woman.. mami has a thyroid problem, sometimes it's kind of difficult for mami to have a baby.. but miracle is happened.. papi n mami didn't need to wait for a longer time.. coz i am here now..

fiRst oF aLL

It's about my lovely papi n mami..
It's started on June 2006.. Mami, Sisilia found a new job as GRO at four stars hotel in Medan.. it's how mami met papi.. Papi, Ahock has been working there, too for almost 10years as purchasing manager.. mami is a simple girl.. papi is so popular at that hotel.. papi is in manager position and papi has a lot of girlfriends.. mami is not interested in papi at all.. but papi always be around mami, disturbing mami, bothering mami, took pictures of mami while working..
everyday at home, mami always tell pho-pho how mami dislike and hate papi.. mami told pho-pho that papi was playboy.. bad guy.. and always bother mami..
just in four months, papi succeed to change mami's feeling.. mami introduced papi to mami's family.. pho-pho & kong-kong disagree with mami's choice.. but on that four months, mami knew that papi has a bad past life.. papi has changed.. and mami trust in papi.. and finally kong-kong & pho-pho let mami with papi..
On November 2006, mami got a better job and moved to Sekolah Djuwita.. mami believed God has planned that mami worked at four stars hotel just to let mami met papi.. papi & mami started their relationship there..
On February 2008, papi decided to work at Bengkulu and has a long distance relationship with mami.. it's not easy to have LDR... papi is 12 years older than mami.. papi is mature and never get angry to mami.. that's why their relationship is long lasting..
After a year.. papi planned to propose mami.. mami arranged their married by herself in Medan coz papi was in Bengkulu .. a lot of happiness and tears but papi was not around mami..
mami got a pre wedding syndrom... coz papi didn't come back to medan until 7 months after May 2009.. luckily mami has kong-kong, pho-pho, and aunts to support mami's wedding with papi.. it's not easy for mami coz papi came back to medan 3 days before their married..
On 21 December 2009 mami n papi got married.. their honeymoon to Bangkok was postponed till February 2010.. coz mami thought, there will be a lot of things needed to settle after wedding.. and mami's best friend from Malaysia, aunt Yim Nie came to help mami to arrange the wedding, too..
couple days after married, papi n mami went to Lake toba with mami's family and uncle Dennis.. He is mami's friend.. he came from America to attend papi & mami's wedding..